The world as I see it holds many secrets. Truths, lies, hatred, jealousy, happiness and love; these all are many of the secrets hidden in this world. Love; the most painful of all these feelings. Love is considered as the most painful feeling because of some general things and once a person look into these general things many secrets are revealed.

LOVE – Pain and Gain:

The pain in love and the gain in love, they both are mere words for the situation in love. The situation of love determines whether we get pain or gain. No love is complete without these two, as they say no pain no gain. Truly because in love you have to go through a number of pain to be united with the one you love and gain them.

Just like this there is another theory of mine that sometimes in love you get so much pain that u get addicted to it and when you get a little pain instead of the large dose you are addicted to, you take it as gain. As I said earlier, these two are mere words for the situation. You are gaining so much that you don't feel pain or you're in so pain that you forget the things you are gaining elsewhere. This becomes a problem sometimes but as many say, love makes us blind and blinds our eyes to the general facts that are right in front of us.

HATRED - The fire behind all:

Hatred? It is the fire inside of us which burns for the worse, this fire is not like pride or anything else but it is dangerous as it eats us from the inside. This feeling has some connection with love. Let me put it this way, without hatred and jealousy no love could be complete. But it is not the hatred for the one you love, but for someone else.

Like you love someone but they are not yours, but they are someone else's and that someone else hurts the one you love so much and puts them through hell. The feeling that is developed then, for the one who is hurting the one you love is known as hatred. You grow to hate them so much that all you want to do is kill that person for hurting the one you love but you can't because the one you love says that they love them and they will be hurt if anything happened to them and you can't hurt them. At that moment you can't do anything but pray and you feel like lost because you can't protect them from the one who hurts them. You are lost and you can’t do anything and you want to hurt yourself ‘cause you just can’t watch the person you love get hurt.

Another theory is that when the pain becomes unbearable and you go into denial, but denial is not easy. Denial, It’s not a river; it’s a freakin’ ocean. So when you go into denial, you try to forget them and you bury your feelings so deep and cover it with other feelings like hatred. And you start acting like you hate them and then at some point you really start believing that you hate them and that love is long gone. But this hatred doesn’t come because of getting hurt in love, it comes by getting used in the name of love.

Sometimes I think, what is the purpose of love? And when you are not loved back, then surely what is its purpose? Why is it considered the greatest feeling of all feelings? Why is it so hard to find and when found, nothing can be better than it? Why is it so hard to find true love? Why?

Surely it has to have some purpose, if not then why is it the most painful and yet the most wonderful feeling?

These questions have arisen in almost everybody’s mind and many have written about it but we all are just not aware of love’s true purpose, even I am not. There’s only as much we can write as our mind allows us, at some point we have to stop writing. Because love? Love is a vast topic on which no one can write everything about it. My knowledge also limits me from seeing the true potential of love like many others but it doesn’t mean we can’s contribute a little to this great feeling everybody calls LOVE…

Loving someone is the most difficult job in the world. You don’t know whether you’ll get the profit of what you’re investing. LOVE. It is never in our will to love someone, it just happens. You don’t know how, you don’t know when, you don’t know why it just happens. But it is not in vain, it always happens for a reason, sometimes the reason is near and we identify it but sometimes the reason is very far and we think that we’ll die and a mountain of sadness has been brought upon us, and don’t realize that it will be better in future.

 True love is hard to find but when found it is the best feeling in the world. True love never dies.

“The legacy just lives on.”

Truly the legacy lives on, but what is the purpose of this legacy? Why people fall into it when it hurts like hell?

When I look into my surroundings I see every feeling; hatred, jealousy, pain, happiness, sadness and many others but the main thing I observe that love conquers all of these feelings. So maybe the purpose of love is to conquer all these feelings and give a person a little era of happiness. But when it gives a person such happiness then why does it pain even more? This question arose in the minds of great minds too and will arise till the world ends.

According to me, people fall in love because they are lonely and the person they fall in love gives them so much pain that they get attached and addicted to that person but that person also makes them happy and that’s what I think love is but there are other theories as well.

The purpose of love is to get inebriated that you forget about anyone and only think about the person you love, you do not care what others do; it’s just that person and no one else. It’s like drugs, you are so high that you can’t breathe without them; you want them and it’s very hard to leave.

Love itself as I see has no purpose, just a waste of time. Maybe that’s because I believed in it so much that I got hurt again and again and at some point I stopped believing in it but that doesn’t mean everyone should ‘cause it’s a wonderful feeling.