The world as I see it holds many secrets. Truths, lies, hatred, jealousy, happiness and love; these all are many of the secrets hidden in this world. Love; the most painful of all these feelings. Love is considered as the most painful feeling because of some general things and once a person look into these general things many secrets are revealed.

LOVE – Pain and Gain:

The pain in love and the gain in love, they both are mere words for the situation in love. The situation of love determines whether we get pain or gain. No love is complete without these two, as they say no pain no gain. Truly because in love you have to go through a number of pain to be united with the one you love and gain them.

Just like this there is another theory of mine that sometimes in love you get so much pain that u get addicted to it and when you get a little pain instead of the large dose you are addicted to, you take it as gain. As I said earlier, these two are mere words for the situation. You are gaining so much that you don't feel pain or you're in so pain that you forget the things you are gaining elsewhere. This becomes a problem sometimes but as many say, love makes us blind and blinds our eyes to the general facts that are right in front of us.

HATRED - The fire behind all:

Hatred? It is the fire inside of us which burns for the worse, this fire is not like pride or anything else but it is dangerous as it eats us from the inside. This feeling has some connection with love. Let me put it this way, without hatred and jealousy no love could be complete. But it is not the hatred for the one you love, but for someone else.

Like you love someone but they are not yours, but they are someone else's and that someone else hurts the one you love so much and puts them through hell. The feeling that is developed then, for the one who is hurting the one you love is known as hatred. You grow to hate them so much that all you want to do is kill that person for hurting the one you love but you can't because the one you love says that they love them and they will be hurt if anything happened to them and you can't hurt them. At that moment you can't do anything but pray and you feel like lost because you can't protect them from the one who hurts them. You are lost and you can’t do anything and you want to hurt yourself ‘cause you just can’t watch the person you love get hurt.

Another theory is that when the pain becomes unbearable and you go into denial, but denial is not easy. Denial, It’s not a river; it’s a freakin’ ocean. So when you go into denial, you try to forget them and you bury your feelings so deep and cover it with other feelings like hatred. And you start acting like you hate them and then at some point you really start believing that you hate them and that love is long gone. But this hatred doesn’t come because of getting hurt in love, it comes by getting used in the name of love.